i don't like to be wrong-footed.
i like knowing that i'm in control.



i'm sure many of us girls belong to the type of people who believe that we should at least be really good friends with a guy before even thinking of getting together etc etc. in other words, get to really know that guy before starting to have any romantic notions. yup, i more or less agree with this point, i mean, who knows what kind of crappy character that the guy may be hiding initially? but can i just point out gently that liking a friend is just about the biggest mistake you can ever make? (of course, let's just presume that this guy doesn't feel the same way) do you really want to go through the torture of being known as Just a Friend, being treated like just another of the guys, or even worse, being the one he confides in about the girls he likes?

unrequited love/like is just about the worst thing that anyone can be put through. that's why i am never putting myself in this kind of situation again.


reminder to self: all guys are jerks. trust no one. especially those that seem Too Good to be True (i exclude all my friends once again haha)




i don't know what brought this on either.