after so much going-ons, i can only say that girls are really damn stupid sometimes. love is indeed blind, and in some cases, also deaf and mute.

because you only see clearly when you're not involved, when you're looking on at the problems of other people. and then you can only hope that the next time round when it's your turn, you do not make the same mistakes. but there are no gurantees because yes, girls can indeed be the most brainless people when it comes to situations like these.

sometimes we honestly need a major jackass to mess us up a bit, to shake us out of our cottoncandycovered little fantasy world to realise that nobody's going to love us like ourselves, and the next jerk who dares to treat us badly should be kicked out, pronto.

i can't vouch for myself, but luckily i have a constant reminder in the form of Good Friend who once told me he'd "slap me awake" should i dare to put myself through such rubbish again. HAHA.

i don't want to be biased towards anybody. i just want my friends to be happy, and treated the way they should be - PROPERLY.