ok 2 things fulfiled from my list.
had coffee session with lydia dear, who unfortunately was simply too distracted by bejewelled on her palmtop that she ignored ME and her chocolate muffin (it got pissed off and turned hard as rock)
and..
the incredibles!
what can i say? from the creators of finding nemo.
must watch movie of the year.
i'd love to bore you with hilarious details from the movie but words serve no purpose. you must watch the show to know how good it actually is.

thing to ponder about for the day:

you become somebody else
'round everyone else
you're watching your back
like you can't relax
you're trying to be cool
you look like a fool to me

why do people try so desperately to fit in. into the so-called cool crowd. the popular bunch.
for what?
and of course by vj's standards, the 'cool crowd' naturally refers to the sports crowd.
do these people ever realise, once this 2 years is up, everybody is a nobody in society.
why? why try so hard to hide your true self?
why hide your identity.
why be somebody else who is not you.
why suffer just to fit in.
why make life so difficult for yourself.
why is your self-esteem so low that you cannot even be comfortable in your own skin.
inferiority complex.
you're pleasing nobody not even yourself.
do you realise. this whole thing is just in your mind.
nobody really gives a damn for pete's sake.
imaginary audience.
you've gotta stop living your life this way.

are you this way too?